Today was a good day for Justice. I want to thank you, Dennis, because all this hard work finally paid off.

I want to direct this letter to all you fathers out there. You can do it too because I did.

Here's what happened.

A few years ago my ex took me to Child Support to get my child support raised because she conveniently had a baby with her new hubby. Well naturally she thought she could get more money out of me. CSED (child support enforcement division) raised my child support without my input or ok two and half times what it was. I fought with them and they confiscated all my money in my checking account at one point. Then threatened to take my license away after there wasn't enough payment to suit the ex (because I just could not afford the mounting fees and high amount of child support they put on me).

Then, they threatened to arrest me. Well my business had fallen off to nothing. Not much coming in and whole lot of debt piling up. I had enough of this and worked with Dennis to get something done. (I couldn't afford a fancy expensive lawyer) Dennis showed me the steps and let me tell you I have never been so scared to go up against the machine of the state. It was different from what I wanted to do which was to just lay down and let her have whatever. It was really hard to keep pushing on because the process can take some time but well worth it.

I had a hearing with a Judge who really isn't a judge but what they call a Standing Master. This guy didn't even give me the chance to hear my case and just dismissed the case like I was going to run down the street with my tail between my legs. I was really ticked off by this decision, or rather indecision. I can remember the day vividly.

I about got into a fist fight with a motorist, I hollered at my landlord, and got into a fight with my wife, which I don’t don't do on a regular basis and I finally figured out that isn't the answer. I could of laid down and given up at this point.

But rather, I needed to press on with this court case. I went to the Standing Master's office and immediately demanded his written order so I could file an appeal. Well, he was very perturbed by this. I knew he was stalling and delaying the written order so that I couldn't appeal. I didn't care and wasn't going to back down on this. Once I got the order, I filed the appeal paper work that Dennis provided.

Let me tell you, the court house clerk ladies were great and will help you if your sweet and nice to them. If you get something wrong just listened to them and to Dennis and correct whatever you have too if there is something wrong with the paper work.

Well I got my appeal heard in front of the District judge which took my side and overturned the Standing Master. The case is now back in the lower court which means the Ex is going to have to negotiate with me or take her chances in court. I wonder how her and her lawyer felt after it was all over. I wish I was a little mouse in the corner of their conversation after the higher court reversed this dimwit Standing Master. All I can say is be proactive and continue the fight. Because I am.

Thanks again Dennis.

Jesse Wagner

"America's divorce rate for 1st marriages is 41%, 60% for the 2nd and an incredible 73% for the 3rd."

"Dennis has masterfully isolated the true keys to gaining your rights as a Father."
- Chris Brown, Everett, Washington

"Dennis Gac is the silent giant in the realm of Fathers Rights information."

"Craig Carlson of Seattle, Washington used the system to eliminate $27,500.00 in back child support when 3 different attorneys’ previously told him he couldn't"

"Dennis has written 10 Best Selling Books On Fathers Rights."

"The Fathers Rights Protection System works in every State in the U.S. and the same basic approaches can be used in Canada, England, New Zealand, and Australia."

"Should Fathers have equal time with their kids?" 62% say Yes and 38% No according to Parade Magazine."

"The Fathers Rights Protection System is no magic wand; only solid information and momentum will overcome subconscious fear,” explains Dennis."

“The techniques in the Fathers Rights Protection System helped me to do what three attorneys couldn’t (or wouldn’t) do." "I was able to remove a powerful, biased, and dangerous Guardian Ad Litem from the case" “The Fathers Rights Protection System enables Fathers to take control of their court case!”
- Gary Barksdale, Oklahoma

"I was married for 23 years and have 7 children. My X wife tricked me and obtained a default against me stealing custody from me and obtaining child support." "I was really depressed." Even worse I had to move away from Florida where my boys were, to California to find work." "I thought I'd never have my boys again." "I contacted lawyers in Florida and was sadly disappointed in their negative approach." "I was mad as hell, but with Dennis' System, I was able to fight for my boys and I won!" I now have them in California with me." "My boys are happy and I am very happy." "Thanks Dennis!"
- Michael Shelton, California

"Just wanted to send you a note of THANK YOU!!!! The information and suggestions you made to us are the main reasons my other half has rights to his son now. It has relieved a great deal of stress in our home and his boy is much happier! We have a plan now that is being followed even though we still have minor issues arise; but, that's nothing compared to what we were facing before. He gets the holiday and birthday time he never had before and Joe now has a say in things. His son is happy to get more time with him and feels his father has as much control as his mother now in his schedule. We are forever grateful for the insight you have given us and the knowledge --- which is power to go the distance."
Janeece Smith, Washington State

"I bought your Fathers Rights Protection System a few years ago when I was located in Tulsa Oklahoma as a corporate project manager." "I just wanted to say thank you for the information." "It has helped me, a close friend, and a number of other Fathers that I know personally." "Please feel share this with other Fathers as a sign of hope!"
James Dean Foley, Omaha, Nebraska

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"Do NOT Hire An Attorney, Go To Court or Make Any Other Major Move In Your Case Until You’ve Read This Important Report."

"These People are Have Increased Their Rights With Their Kids" More Than They Ever Dreamed Possible --- Lowering Child Support and Gaining Custody of Their Children. Hear Their Stories and Learn How They Did It...Straight From The Horse's Mouth!"

From: Dennis M. Gac

Dear Father,

Periodically, we interview fathers who have made it BIG in gaining more rights in their cases by using the The Fathers Rights Protection System ... I'm NOT talking about high powered, highly educated guys. I'm talking about "Average Joes" who often started out just as apprehensive as you may be, and who now... Have increased rights with their children, the likes of which they never dreamed possible just a few short months ago" ... In fact, many of these people guys pay little or no child support and have tremendous time with their kids. Some even have full custody and primary care.

Here are some examples of people you'll be reading about:

Real-Life Case Study #5

"The techniques from The Fathers Rights Protection System helped me do that three attorneys couldn't (or wouldn't) do. I was able to get a powerful, biased, and dangerous Guardian Ad Litem removed from my case, pro se! She was so mad! Dennis held my hand as I encountered resistance from the court house, telling me to 'go bounce some heads!' He reviewed my motions, shared cases (that worked) to apply to my motion, and kept me going when it seemed the cards were all stacked against me. Quite honestly they are! But thanks to NBFR, I am learning to stack the deck in my favor. My motion was sustained and now that that hurdle has been overcome, I now have more. But I am confident due to this success and I am certain that as I continue to use Dennis' techniques of 'legal kung-fu', I will prevail over the other hurdles! For the sake of my son, I have hope, thanks to these techniques!"

Gary Barksdale
garybarksdale@ou.edu
405-476-1106

Real-Life Case Study #6

Things have improved greatly in my case. I have full custody of my oldest son and increased time with my other two children. A court date is still pending to amend support amounts; but, I must thank you for the information I learned from in the The Fathers Rights Protection System and your blog. It has been most beneficial for me and my children. If it wasn’t for this information I would still be at the mercy of my wife and her lawyer. The tactics you explain are the real deal.

Richard P. Mikelson
rpmmillwright@hotmail.com
209-688-5134

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Alan Roth

"I loved the Interview with Dan Buckett who is an ordinary guy "taking the bull by the horns." I really love his sense of humor, as well, calling himself "an electrician at law" in mockery of his "X"'s attorney. I have applied his strategies that already have increased my rights with my kids. If you really want to succeed this is a must!"

Alan Roth

Terry

From your interviews, I have been clued in to techniques and legal maneuvers that are invaluable to people like me who are in need of knowledge and help, to get their situations going. Learning from people with first-hand experience is a real life-saver! Your site has probably saved me several thousand dollars in legal fees alone! This is money I would have spent [that] I now know is a big waste of time and money. This kind of information alone is worth many times the costs of your information.

Terry

Of course, I've been extremely fortunate... In my lifetime, I've had some GREAT mentors... I know that for most people, it's *impossible* to find people who are willing to share their "success secrets" with you. Successful fathers are usually SO focused on their own cases and lives that, they rarely tell anyone about heir successes much less publish their secrets in books or newsletters. It's just not a priority for them. And even if someone were willing to mentor you, how would you find them? How would you convince them to reveal their secrets? What questions would you ask? It becomes more and more complicated... and time-consuming! ...

And, that's why, as publisher of the #1 best-selling course on Fathers Rights, I use my clout to land interviews with real world Fathers Rights success stories and publish them on our The Fathers Rights Protection System Website. Personally, I've always believed in the principle, "Model someone who's already reached the goal you want to achieve." Living by this principle, I've improved my own case and helped many others do the same -- so I know first-hand how well it works. I want to make sure our members have access to "real-life" success stories that you can MODEL your case after...

An 'Inside Look' into Hugely Successful Cases!

As a member of "The National Brotherhood of Fathers Rights", you'll receive our newsletters and information via e-mail letting you know about brandnew success stories and successful techniques that you can use, right now, to improve your case!

The basic fathers rights manuals and other published information by the National Brotherhood of Fathers Rights has helped many fathers dramatically improve their cases, as well. Visit The Fathers Rights Protection System for More Information.

Give you a private tour of "Fathers Rights" cases that have already achieved their success and discover the exact step-by-step strategies they've used to generate their rights! Walk through their lives and cases to discover exactly which specific things made them successful (and saved them money!) and which were a waste of time (so you don't waste your time on them, too!)

Hear first hand about the techniques and strategies they used to lower child support and gain custody of their children. Find out how they first started out and how they ultimately ended up; becoming an "equal" parent.... You'll know exactly what works and what doesn't , making it easy to apply the same techniques to your own situation.

Successful Fathers Reveal HOW they’re making It, Slugging It Out, Inch by Inch To Gain Their Rights!

Let me make one thing really clear:

These are NOT guys that have any more talent than you do that you'll be reading about. Rather, these are...

People like YOU who started from scratch, made the right moves, and now generate the momentum to get what they want and what’s best for their kids!

... You'll be privy to their struggles, their successes, their most costly mistakes, and their most profitable campaigns when reading the materials published by the National Brotherhood of Fathers Rights.

You'll leave each interview with an in-depth understanding of the secrets behind their triumphs... and a crystal-clear picture of how you can apply these secrets to help build your own case.

Get An Inside Look At Fathers Like:

The testimonials and examples used are exceptional results, which do not apply to the average father, and snot intended to represent or guarantee that anyone will achieve the same or similar results. Each individuals success depends on his or her background, dedication, desire, and motivation.

WARNING! Occasionally, some narrow-minded father (whose case is NOT successful) insists that he can only learn from situations and cases that are within his own State. In fact, this is a limiting belief that will hold you back from achieving massive success. However, if you realize that learning successful strategies from other fathers and adapting them to your own case can give you an incredible edge over your "X", keep reading...

Don't Mistake "Book Knowledge" For Real World Experience

You may already have an intellectual grasp of legal concepts and maybe you already have some experience in the court system on your own. But just imagine reading a book on "How To Perform Brain Surgery."Sure, you could read about the concepts and techniques for months. But until you actually get in an operating room and watch experienced surgeons operate on people, you'll never be qualified to do it yourself. You'll never see how all of the concepts and techniques work together in the real world. This is the same as improving your case! To be effective, you need to see how other fathers have applied the concepts and techniques in the real world. This is exactly what the The Fathers Rights Protection System will do for you.

For Example...

You've probably heard that you can improve your case by getting a good lawyer. But this is no guarantee of success -- UNTIL you know the secrets of "how" to improve your case and get involved in "directing your own case" with or without an attorney. The Fathers Rights Protection System will divulge the successful strategies other fathers have used... You'll see, clearly, exactly, “how” they reached their goals and how they positioned themselves for success.

Take a tour of "Complete Fathers Rights Protection System Site" and discover...

The EXACT tips and tricks to use to make an exceptional difference in your case by obtaining your copy of The Fathers Rights Protection System Learn How Successful Fathers do it! This unbelievable system shows fathers how to get unbelievable results in their cases regarding divorce, child support, custody and visitation, paternity, property settlements and much more!.

Since fathers have improved their cases so much, they naturally trust the recommendations found in The Fathers Rights Protection System. And that's the key. Once you've seen what others who are successful have done, you'll turn into a believer when you see success in your own case. But you get the point: It's one thing to read about concepts; it's quite another to "stand in the surgery room" and see firsthand how fathers have actually thrived in their cases --- applying these concepts.

This is what will "gel" the understanding in your head and show you how to make your case work. So you can truly just take these strategies and implement them in your own situation! Best of all, I'll never leave an interview until a client until I've uncovered the low-down, inside scoop on how they were successful in a particular situation, and, all of this information is covered in The Fathers Rights Protection System.

But don't take MY word for it! Here's what just a FEW of my fathers are saying...

Loren Mullins

Wow! I'm putting together the components of my case, and the wealth of information you have in The Fathers Rights Protection System is really helping me. After investing in the System I’m not going to join as a full member of the National Brotherhood of Fathers Rights to get personalized consultation from my case. It's one thing to learn lots of theory and techniques, but reading what other fathers have done in situations that are similar to mine really brings things into focus. The examples given in the "System" are detailed and right to the point. They're virtual classes, teaching not only what needs to be done, but why. I especially like the detailed summaries, with the clear and specific step-by-step recommendations for what needs to be done to make things really happen in a case. Loren Mullins Centralia, Washington

Loren Mullins Centralia, Washington

Tom Moore

As a father just starting out in his divorce case, all of the tips and 'inside information' I can get are imperative for me to make my case a success. "The Fathers Rights Protection System" gives me insight into how others, (who probably started out much like me), have managed their cases. I have found tips, special tools, and contacts that are absolutely invaluable.

Tom Moore North Carolina

Greg Burgin

"I just wanted to let you guys know that I LOVE The Fathers Rights Protection System and love being a member of your organization. Ever since signing up I have literally scoured over EVERY single word and have found your personal guidance extremely valuable. I've learned extremely valuable information that will end up increasing my time with my kids, paying less child support and effectuating a great property settlement. Your service is well worth every penny and I would gladly recommend it to anyone trying to pursue father’s rights!

Greg Burgin Everett, Washington (206) 396-2706

More cases we've worked on nationally

Testimonial From Will Adams

I definitely have to recommend Dennis Gac to any father who is going through a divorce and having to deal with custody or visitation issues. I am in the military and had to move due to military requirements, well the parenting plan that was set in place in 2002 didn't mention anything about visitation with my son outside the state he was residing in. And of course the X decided she wanted to be a pain in the butt about the whole thing, I hired an attorney and $30,000.00 later the attorney had not done anything but take my money and placed me in a position to have to go to trial. Needless to say she was fired and Dennis Gac was hired. I ended up representing myself with Dennis's guidance and support and probably did better than any attorney would have done for me, my child support only went up thirty dollars a month from what it was set at six years ago, I get to see my son much more than the X and her attorney where offering and Domestic Violence restrictions that had been placed on my visitation time with my son all but went away.

I do have to say I was terrified of representing myself, after all we are talking about time with my son and my ability to support my current family (Wife & 2 step children). If this went badly I thought that "I might never see my son, I might not be able to support the rest of my family". Dennis had to convince me several times to stay the course and things would work out. I'm glad he did! Everything Dennis told me to try and encourage me became factual on trial day. I absolutely could not believe how easy this turned out to be and how beneficial using Dennis's techniques actually are. Dennis has definitely won my loyalty and seeing how I am sure I will be dealing with the "wicked witch of the west" again I will NEVER use anyone else other than Dennis.

Testimonial From Jermaine Dennis

I would like to take the time out and thank you for what you are doing for father`s all around the land. I am glad I subscribe to the emails because it taught me so much for my child support/visitation case. I have chose to use an attorney even before I knew about your group. I decided to retain my attorney because I was going to have the same judge as I had 7 years ago. I took notes from the emails and when I finally had the chance to speak with my attorney those notes came into play. Every question I asked my lawyer she was impressed. She asked me if I really needed her services Lol. Since I was dealing with a no nonsense Judge that didnt care to hear what I had to say seven years ago. I had to stick with a lawyer. I helped prepare my case with the emails. In fact the lawyer charged me half of her fee because I was prepare with the knowledge that you gave me which was a blessing. I pay more than half I was expected to pay. In addition I have my kids on the weekend. I advised my lawyer to broker my demands with my ex girlfriend before we go into the courtroom and she did. My ex girlfriend comply to my terms and it was agreed upon before entering court. I just needed my lawyer to explain it to the hardheaded judge. My child support hardheaded judge didn`t like the fact there was an agreement in place and he chose to proceed to work out figures in her favor. He failed because the amount he advised me to pay was the same amount that my lawyer brokered. The judge was fixed on giving my ex more money. In addition my lawyer drop a bombshell on the judge to advise him that I was the plantiff of this hearing and not my ex. In addition we advised him as soon as we leave the court we are going down the hall to fight for visitation. The judge changed his tone/attitude with me. Now Im the judge good friend now. Everything went in my favor. Dennis even thought my case is over I will still purchase your book. Thanks for everything.

Jermaine Dennis
jdennis2172@yahoo.com

Testimonial From Damien Sullivan

I just wanted to thank you again for opening my eyes. I felt so powerless in my situation that I had given up. That is until I found you and your program. Today, I can feel the tide shifting in my favor and now I'm not the one storming out of court mad. Don't get me wrong, this isn't about me trying to get revenge or anything, this is about justice. Justice my daughter will seek once she's old enough. Child Support enforcement and the welfare system actually promotes and rewards raising a broken family. I even have proof that some encourage it! Can you believe that? Well, just know you have a soldier fighting for the cause and I wont give up until either something changes or I'm physically unable.

Damien Sullivan
damiensullivan@hotmail.com

Testimonial of John and Jamie Clay, Chicago, IL

My name is Jamie Clay and I am the wife of John Clay. My husband is a great father to all of his children. He has 11 in all but one Mother in particular has used the court to try and destroy his life literally. Out of ignorance my husband allowed it to go on for years until I came across Dennis Gac and the Father's Rights System. Dennis is truly God sent. I believe God is using him to bring many Father's out of darkness and into the marvelous light!! I have personally watched the confidence level in my husband soar so much that it has shocked even himself. As his wife It has made me fall in love with him all over again all because he took the chance and stood up for himself and his children. Dennis Gac knows what he's talkin about. I love it when my husband says to me Dennis said.... that makes my day because it has given my husband hope. The fact that Dennis is there for you personnally and I don't mean just in thought. I mean, we can call him on the phone and he answers not a recording but him. When I email him it is actually him I am communicating with. I appreciate that because there are so many people trying to scam you. Oh but not Dennis Gac he is the real deal. He knows what he's talking about and every dime we spent for him to help us was well worth it and we saved a ton of money!! I Thank You Dennis for all you're doing to change the course of our lives. My husband and I are forever grateful for your diligence, encouragement, grace and patience you have shown toward us. If you are a Father be encouraged there is a light at the end of the tunnel. And Dennis Gac is that Angel that will guide you there!!

With Love,
Jamie Clay

Testimonial Of John mcCutcheon

I'm not sure whether or not you get replies to this address personally but thought I'd write anyway.

Though I have not received your product yet and can't comment on it's usefulness I would like to tell you that regardless of the value of your product to my divorce strategy - seeing your web page at 4am was worth every dime I spent. FINALLY....a page dedicated to fighting back!!! I was seriously beginning to lose hope of finding any product or service ANYWHERE that addressed the issue of divorce from the same posture I have taken i.e. FIGHT BACK!

I didn't get all the stuff she wants to take by rolling over in business and I'll be damned if I'm going to sit back and be rolled by her now. The most frustrating part has been finding counsel with the same attitude. I fired one on Friday and hired a new one today for that very reason.

Anyway, thought I'd take the opportunity to say 'thanks'. Your web page was the first light I had seen in months of defeatist darkness. If it is half the product you pitched I'll be satisfied. I was just glad to know there were others out there with the same convictions I have - and thankful that you had the inspiration to market a product designed to address our needs.

Regards,
John McCutcheon

Testimonial of Bev Autrey

There is a great deal to my son’s story is seeking fairness with his child; however, rather than go into all of this, suffice to say, that he had been dealt a grave injustice by the court system. The real questions is how do we change all of this into a more positive system for the fathers out there -- the ones who worry each day and night about their children, knowing they may be in harm’s way, but they have no leg to stand on and no one to defend him, or even listen to his plea? Our system automatically deems the fathers “unfit”, “deadbeat dads”, “abusive” -- just because the mother says so. Again, how can we stop this madness? I, for one, would like to see us grandmothers, sisters, brothers, girlfriends, etc., rally and pull together throughout the country. The unfairness needs to be stopped! Recently, I decided to do some research on the matter -- not only for my son’s sake, but for the sake of so many other fathers I met in the same situation. I found the Fathers Rights Protection System and read it over several times. I also listened to the audio that was provided. I felt a surge of relief -- that there was actually someone out there fighting for our father’s rights. We need to all get together and stop this madness for our grandchildren, stepchildren, nieces, nephews and the like. It is truly our responsibility to correct this incorrectness of our justice system.

A FATHER’S RIGHTS TESTIMONIAL

How do we convince the courts that the father may be more suited to raise his children/child than the mother, when the courts won’t even look at his evidence?

By Bev Autrey, mother of father, grandmother of his son

One of the aspects of my son, that he did not pick up from me, is a “defeatist” attitude. He’ll try one time to fight for something and if it doesn’t work out in his favor, he accepts it, no matter if it’s fair to him or not; no matter if it seemed unjust and/or illegal -- he’ll accept it. If his situation only concerned him, I would let it go; however, it more concerns his son than anyone else. His son is my grandchild. Someone needs to fight for him and his best interests. That’s where “grandma” comes in.

Before you continue to read this testimonial, keep in mind, my grandson adores his father (more so than his mother). My son is an excellent father, loving and caring for his son in a way that would give you goose bumps.

Around the holidays, 2004, the mother was finally convinced that her and my son’s relationship was over (she hung on for a couple of years, hoping that she and my son would be permanently together). Some of the reasons (and the foremost) that my son couldn’t stay with her, is her outrageous temper tantrums and her control/domineering attitude. Her thoughts, at this time, were that she had to get even with, not only my son, but his family as well. So she used my grandson.

She proceeded to the courthouse and put out an exparte restraining order against him followed by a temporary parenting plan and other papers to support her case. During this time, my son was not able to see his son until after they went to court. My grandson suffered because he couldn’t see his daddy. However, during this time, she called my son to see if he would keep my grandson for a couple of days, despite the restraining order. Of course, he would have been in contempt had he done that and she knew it but was trying to set him up. He was served his papers on his job, which of course, is very embarrassing.

My son responded to all of this and had to have her served with his papers. The server went to her home -- no one there. Went to her job -- she wasn’t working that day. Finally, he found her in a cocktail lounge where she was served. By the way, she is on probation and was ordered not to be in such places or even to be drinking. She’s already had 2 DUIs.

She attained an attorney. However, since she had moved out of my son’s home, she left him with all of the bills, thereby leaving him with absolutely no money, so he had to attend court pro se. He was given a continuance to figure out a way to get an attorney (not realizing that that would be a waste of time and money because it was already “cut and dried” in her favor). My son took out a loan from his job to pay for an attorney. He told my son that there would be no need for him to appear in court, that he would handle it. The outcome was horrendous!! Not only did the mother get every single thing that she asked for, she was also awarded outrageous babysitting payments from my son. The court calls it “daycare expenses”; my grandson, at that time, was not old enough to be in daycare and, not only that, the mother worked three nights a week. Furthermore, daycare expenses for one child averages about $16 per day per 8 hours; the mother claimed to pay her nighttime babysitter $40 for 6 hours. My son paid her an average of $240+ per month for babysitting expenses, about $350 for child support and about $150 medical insurance. Now, keep in mind, one of the days she worked, my grandson was with his father. At that time, it was shown that my son’s and her wages were pretty much the same.

Between then and now, and even though my husband and I took care of our grandson many, many times, from the time he was born, we very rarely get to see him, because, at this point, she doesn’t like us any more. When she gets upset with someone (anyone), that means our grandson suffers. She lets our grandson know, that whoever she is upset with, are bad people and he should not be around them any longer. My grandson is 4 years old now and understands, pretty much, what is being said to him. It is truly heartbreaking, especially for him; everyone else suffers as well.

If you met the mother, you would see how these actions glorify her in her own mind. Many times she will do this just to get glorification with no thought of her son and what it does to him.

At the age of 20, the mother had another son (who is now 16 years old) and gave him up to her parents, who adopted him. He was raised as the mother’s brother. So, our grandson calls him uncle (when he is actually his brother). It is the intention of this mother (and her parents) to let my grandson grow up believing this. IT’S NOT RIGHT, IT’S CRUEL AND IT’S DEFINITELY NOT IN THE BEST INTEREST OF MY GRANDSON!!! What’s worse is that the court, and it’s attorneys, claims that this is irrelevant to my son’s case. It’s absurd!

In October, 2005, my son appeared for his trial date. He was notified only 10 days prior, so he really didn’t have time to prepare. In order to save attorney expenses (she said), she wanted to meet with my son to maybe figure out a planning schedule for my son to sign off on. She said they’d meet two days before the trial. They met and she really didn’t want to hear what my son wanted, only that he agree to what she wanted. Of course, the meeting ceased immediately. My son and I had one day to prepare, with the help of the National Brotherhood of Father’s Rights (NBFR). In one day, we all put together my son’s case for presentation to the court: outline notes, trial brief, declarations, evidence of accusations, making copies at 3:00 am. We were up the entire day and night, until he went to court.

Court was at 8:00 am. My son’s goal was to seek 50/50% custody of his son. He went in, asking for a continuance and explaining why. Neither the judge, nor the attorney, would allow it. They also told him that there was no need in filing his papers. His outline of pleading his case was also a waste of time. They told him it would only be a “question and answer” session. When he started asking questions to the mother, at least 98% were objected and sustained to. The few questions that did get to be answered, were lies. The judge went on to tell him that there was “no commissioner or judge in the state of Washington that would allow him 50/50% custody.”

The day after the trial, the mother’s place of work shut down. The mother is a card dealer and has been fired off all of her jobs (except this one) in the Spokane area. When she left my son’s home, she and my grandson moved in with some friends. Soon after, she bought a 2004 Dodge Durango, found a home to rent at $875/month and hired a personal trainer in fitness. The home is very large with an upstairs to it and the utilities in the winter time range in the $400-600 area. And, just recently, she traded the Durango in for a 2006 GMC Envoy.

There is so much more to this story, but just what I wrote is unbelievable. But, the courts do not want to hear it. I hear of this all the time and all the time, the fathers immediately lose. The courts say that it’s “standard procedure”. HOW CAN A CHILD’S LIFE BE “STANDARD PROCEDURE”? If my son cannot be allowed to prove the corruptive-ness (for example the mother having an anger problem, suicidal, giving up her first son, losing her jobs on a regular basis, continuous domestic violence, public violence, alcohol problems, house parties and the list goes on), is it safe for his son to be with her 100% of the time or is he in harm’s way? We have no alternative (none whatsoever) to leave it up to the courts. And, further, if a disaster happens to his son, who’s to blame? Our courts aren’t going to take responsibility, especially since they DIDN’T EVEN LOOK AT MY SON’S EVIDENCE OR THOUSANDS OF OTHER FATHERS’ EVIDENCE. My God, what kind of justice is that? Who do these fathers turn to? An attorney that’s already promother? It’s a proven fact that, at this day and time, with mothers working full time now, that each parent is on equal ground as far as rearing their children. I have three sons (34, 35, 36) and they were taught to cook, clean, etc., etc. Not one of their wives/girlfriends could cook. My son knew more about what to do with his son when he was born, than the mother did.

Testimonial of Alex Mandossian

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Andrea Cassin

I can not believe how much of you book I related to. It is right on point and you do not pull any punches. It is a long battle that takes place when going for primary custody of the kids when you are on the side of a father.

I become frustrated when I stand back and look at the facts of our case. Scott's ex-wife works two days a week and states openly that it is impossible for her to find the time to work more while Scott and I are working around the clock to make ends meet. She tells people over the phone while the kids can hear her that Scott is a cockroach. She tells people that he lies and makes up lies about her and her boyfriend. He is a six time convicted felon. We have a one inch thick stack of papers that tell the details of the crimes he committed. In open court she said that Scott was making up "wild accusations."

She moved the kids into a two bedroom apartment where the kids (two girls and a boy) have to share a bedroom. The kids had their own rooms prior to her dating this man. The lived in Gretchen's mothers home where they each had their own bedroom.

She drops the kids off with who ever will take them. It is frustrating watching her do things I would never dream of doing! I understand the battle is just beginning.

I love my husband and recognize his strengths and weaknesses. I knew that he would go to court do a great job with his oral presentation because he represented himself in court during his divorce with your help. My strength is writing. Because he and I recognized our strengths as team we brought them to the table. I wrote all the legal papers that were submitted to the court. I appreciate your help with staying focused on what to write.

At times we both get frustrated that the courts do not seem to move as quickly as we would like them to move. You told us to be patient, that this was a stair stepping process. It has been. Your words are true, it took 45 days to change the momentum in this case. You were able to guide us through the steps we needed to take to make that shift. You knew what to do and we did what you said to do. That is the key to all of this. We can not get caught up in the emotional battle that takes place when the ex-wife starts to freak out on Scott or the kids, we just need to stay focused on the right steps to take in court. We have to ignore her emotional chaos.

Thank you for the book! Thank you for renewing my focus on the battle to protect the best interest of the kids. It is about the best interest of the kids.

Angela Cassin

Testimonial of Tom Soliman

Hi Dennis, Thomas Soliman here from NJ…I purchased your system back in 2005-6 and gained full custody of my 8month old daughter. I just wanted to let you guys know that she is 4 now, we just returned from a one week Disney vacation & one week Bahamas cruise...it is the best feeling in the world to be able to continue to watch my daughter grow and progress…I have many people talk to me about how I obtained custody; I always send them to your site…I also wanted to ask if there has been anything new since 05-06 so I can stay up to date with current information…you guys are the best and I will forever appreciate the assistance and guidance provided to me.

Thomas Soliman
Garden State Contracting, President Fathers Rights Advocate 201-780-3402

Sincerely,
Dennis M. Gac, President